Couple massage: errors to avoid for a moment of shared pleasure

Massage en couple : les erreurs à éviter pour un moment de plaisir partagé

Create a bubble of well-being without false note

Massage as a couple is the art of combining well-being and complicity, an invitation to let go for two. But if the intention is beautiful, the execution can sometimes leave something to be desired ... and transform this moment of relaxation into an awkward, even frustrating experience. To make your session a success, here are the mistakes to avoid absolutely.

1. Prepare the atmosphere: the importance of the framework

A massage is not limited to simple gestures: it is a global sensory experience. An inadequate framework can quickly break the magic.

A badly suitable space

Nothing worse than an improvised massage on a disorderly bed or uncomfortable floor. Ideal? A firm mattress or a massage table, accompanied by soft towels and a cushion under the neck for optimal comfort.

Forgetting sensory details

The raw light of the ceiling light and random music of your playlist do not go hand in hand with relaxation. Opt for a soft light, a few candles, a gentle playlist and a pleasant temperature.

2. Mal choosing your massage oil

Massage oil plays an essential role in the quality of touch and sensations. An error of choice can ruin the experience.

An oil too cold or too sticky

Apply an icy massage oil on the skin? A misstep that breaks the atmosphere in a fraction of a second! Heat it between your hands before application. Also favor a fluid and non -sticky texture for a pleasant touch.

A too strong or unsuitable fragrance

Capitious or too heady scents can become embarrassing. Opt for natural and subtle fragrances such as vanilla, sweet almond or citrus for a touch of light sensuality.

3. Awkward or too technical gestures

The objective of a couple massage is not to compete with a professional, but to provide well-being and strengthen the connection.

Excess pressure or lightness

Too much supported and you may transform your partner into a painful plasticine. Too soft and it will become an ineffective touch. Find a happy medium by listening to your partner's reactions.

A jerky sequence

A massage is above all a fluid sequence. Avoid the too long breaks that break the rhythm and make your movements naturally integrate into each other.

4. Forget communication and attentions

A successful massage goes through attentive listening and small gestures that make all the difference.

Do not ask for preferences

Everyone has their sensitivities: some prefer deep pressures, others of sweetness. Before you start, exchange on what your partner likes and adapt your touch.

Finish too abruptly

A massage does not end on a simple "It's over!" Take the time to bring a gentle transition: simply put your hands for a few moments on the skin, slowly stroke the area massaged, offer a accomplice smile ... It's the little touch that seals a successful moment.

Create an accomplice ritual

Couple massage is an invitation to sharing, relaxation and privacy. By avoiding these current errors, you will transform this moment into a real ritual of well-being, to be renewed without moderation. Whether you are a beginner or a follower, the important thing is to take pleasure in offering and receiving, with ease. And if you are looking for the perfect button to enhance these moments, a good supplier of quality massage oils can make all the difference. At Green-SPA, we know how precious these moments are ... You might as well make them unforgettable!